Do clothes really make the person?

I have been seeing a lot of skin lately. Sadly it's still been fairly cold outside. With the "new" fashions (circa 1980) we have seen the resurfacing of many once outdated trends. Skinny jeans, flowing shirts and the infamous short skirts. Necklines are getting lower and skirts are getting higher. Parents it's our responsibility to train our children up in the way they should go. That gives us the authority to say no to clothing choices at the store. It also commands our attention that we ourselves do not give in to the trends and show the cleavage or our bottoms or our chests. God has a higher calling for us and our children. This culture is strongly sexualized and sexual sins run rampant. Coincidence? I think not. We are called to be in the world but not of the world. This is more than just how we speak. This is how we operate our day to day and especially how we dress ourselves and our offspring. I am not just talking about the recent push up bras for 12 year olds, or padded bikinis for our ten year olds. I am also talking about the short skirt that you can see a person's undies through on the 17 yr old or the cleavage on the Mom that's driving the kids to the movies. Too many women who claim a life of Godliness have had TONS of pictures taken of themselves at weddings, parties and other places where they dress up. If you see yourself in most of those pictures with your cleavage in full view you might just want to take the time to think about why you're doing it and who is seeing you like that. We are to lead by example. What example are you?

How Often

How often do we allow ourselves to participate in meaningless chatter about relatively NOTHING. It's harmless right? Sort of but not entirely. While it's easy to get into conversations about the weather, politics, our children, our day to day... How often do we speak of our salvation, our saviour and our spiritual growth. We can use the innocent chatter to segway our conversations. Meaning, it's not wrong to speak of weather, or the most recent adorable thing our children have done but use them to God's glory. How are we lifting our brothers and sisters in Christ. What are you doing to sharpen one another. I don't hold unbelievers to the same degree of salt and light. Though if you're living as salt and light they'll see it. Live it out loud by acting, showing God's Spirit in you. God's Grace is AMAZING truly AMAZING. Share it, speak it and live it for others to see. Lift up those who believe and perhaps use your lives and a witness to those that do not. How different would it be if you were seasoning this world?

The LORD's Day

I am so grateful that our country still has the freedoms to worship. I am often disheartened though by the lack of care or concern with acting out the word through the week. Not necessarily in my own life or family OR the lives of many friends. I do however see and remember people "punching their GOD time card" by going to church on Sunday morning.. "there you go God you got some of my time". How can people feel that is adequate? It is because they see God as their safety net as opposed to their guide and Grace. Seeing the "God is my Co-pilot" T-shirts and bumper stickers really frustrates me and adds to this mentality that WE are in charge and God is sort of "along for the ride". Like he'll change the tires of life when they go flat instead of driving so that you can avoid that pot hole or nail that HE knew was coming and you didn't. Please my friends if you are looking at God as your EMT instead of keeping you out of the accidents I urge you to rethink you position. YES, he can rescue us but I urge you to let him lead. Allow him to be your guide. Build your relationship with him through prayer and fasting.

Can't believe

There are so many things I've said this week while on vacation. One phrase I seem to be repeating a LOT lately is "I can't believe".
I can't believe the school year is nearly done
I can't believe that Lilly is nearly 6.
I can't believe how much Theo is growing.
I can't believe that I haven't lost as much weight by now as I'd like to.

I am working to refocus on life. I CAN believe that GOD has blessed my children and their health. I CAN believe that he's blessed Lilly with a wonderful education this year. I CAN believe that even though I am not where I want to be physically that through God's strength I CAN do this (half of a thyroid or NOT).

The strength to be positive is coming from GOD and I WILL believe.

The next step in our journey.

So along with the fact that we're a fairly dairy free family. I am a gluten free Mama. After many months of avoiding the subject and digging my heels in I gave up and have made the transition. As of right now it hasn't been that hard. I am actually surprised because I know most restaurants etc do not have many if any gluten free things on their menus. What does this mean???? "Hey miss? Could you please make sure that salad doesn't have croutons?" Not an issue croutons are gross anyhow. I feel silly for avoiding it actually.

A few things.

I just realized how behind I am here. Just a few things I've been dealing with lately.

Item #1. The fact that Theo will likely NEVER digest dairy and I am okay with that. This is an amazing conclusion since I found enzymes that aide him in digestion but I can still tell that it's a toxin to his poor little body. Please folks if you think that this is the way to go in order to digest dairy please rethink it. Much research proves that humans were not intended to digest dairy from other animals. We can use other things to make our sweet treats (that we should also limit) and get our calcium.

Item #2. I WILL be healthy no matter what my weight does. I am starting to feel really good and it's been almost a year since my surgery (thyroid for those that are unaware). My weight fluctuates and that is extremely difficult for me to deal with emotionally. It's NOT about my emotions though. It's about being healthy. I exercise and eat appropriately (most of the time). This is what I am going to accept as my reality.

I will be adding more to this later when I am more clear in thought. Thank you for reading this installment.

WInter Blahs

Yes, they've started to settle in to my bones already. The nice thing is that my sweet Husband reminded me that in just a few weeks the days will start to get longer again. YAY!! The skies will be lighter for longer even if it's gray it will be gray for a few more hours Woo Hoo!! I don't celebrate solstice as a tradition or anything but I do understand why folks would. It's sort of fun (especially winter).

Cabin fever.. What does it mean to you. To us it's that inability to function without being at each others throats (through the eyes of my children anyhow). It's been fun watching them hit and bite each other because they need their space. I do get them out to the gym to play with other children and that helps but it's not the same as running around outside and having fun.

Sorry it's been a while.

My ponderings have been few and far between lately. Not something I'm proud of but I am here now. Sometimes I am not sure how to start a post. Especially when I am feeling down in the dumps. I know I know something a Christian shouldn't be or at least shouldn't speak about publicly (according to some).

I am here I am bummed and I am trying to work through it because I can't put my finger on everything I am feeling, it started a while ago. Okay more precisely on my birthday when I was puking at 12:00 Am first thing on Nov 17. My loving husband did everything he could to make the day better. Including him calling in at work and taking the day off. That's about the highlight of my entire 30th birthday.

My parents didn't even call and wish me a happy birthday. When I saw them on Fri that week Mom asked me how it went. That was IT!!

I have been finding myself tearing up thinking about Christmas this year and still haven't figured out why. It's all so annoying, I am not a sentimental person. I don't even cry at movies. I didn't cry at my Grandfather's funeral (he was very sick and a believer so I know he's definitely better off).

I am also dealing with the fact that I seem to be getting a deeper conviction of how to live. This has created a bit of tension between me and family members. It hurts that people have no issues with teasing me about my convictions and now I am considered "old" (BTW if any of you that have called me this are reading this I am sorry. I am not angry or holding a grudge. Just hurting).

So yeah, Thanksgiving was awful, truly awful. I have done the best that I can to be truly grateful for what God has given me which is a lot. I love that I have a great home, two of the sweetest children and a wonderful husband. I am desperately trying to focus on these things.

Sorry for the blubbering.

Fall is in full swing..

Here it is that time of year again. The weather gets cool, the sweaters come out of the closet and the children love playing in the leaves. This is also a time of true reflection for me. Since my birthday is in the fall and Thanksgiving is just around the corner this is a time for major pondering and reflection. Sometimes it's just to see what my goals are or what I have achieved and see where I need to go next.. This year it's all about the blessings. The beginning of 2008 was bleak to say the least I was about to have surgery on my thyroid. I had recently learned of some horrific issues within my family and Ted was without work.

GOD had it ALL under control.
Thanks to Ted being laid off we didn't need to find somebody to take the children during my surgery.
Thanks to another lay off a couple of months later we were able to go to a cousin's wedding and still have income (unemployment).
Thanks to us being completely broke we've learned that credit stinks and we won't be utilizing it for more than home purchases (and even then would love to be without a mortgage).

Now we have a good income, Ted has finished his required hours to complete his apprenticeship term and we're eating well. This fall I have so much to be thankful for. Even in the tough times God's grace and mercy have been apparent and his love has been abundant.

Our Church

I wanted to share with everybody the site of our Church. http://www.ycovenant.com

There are podcasts of our messages available and it's just sort of nice to see where and how we worship.

Summer drawing to a close.

I am super excited to see the end of summer fast approaching. I am looking forward to the fun times walking through the park with the children as the fall colors are in full swing. I so love sweatshirt weather, it makes for some fun days in the backyard as well. Football in the leaves (or snow) and the children laughing and giggling the entire time. Praise the LORD for what he gives us.

It's been a while

I am so happy but busy this time of year. One thing is that most of our debt is GONE!!!! We're getting so close I can taste the freedom. Secondly, birthday season in our home is nearly done. I bought Ted his new golf clubs nearly a week ago for his birthday. Now just to pay for the license plate stickers since they're in his name. The children have been enjoying all the parties and cake though it's not all been easy. They've been dealing with MANY long days and short nights of sleep.

GOD is so good though, he's been providing us with so much. It's hard to fathom that kind of love at times but it's definitely there.

Love you ALL and sorry it's been a while.

How beautiful

It's amazing how beautiful life can be when looking at it through the eyes of a child. The children are happy to see the sun shining each and every morning. The smile and point out the birds in the yard. They marvel at the colors of the cars driving by when we go to and fro....

Sadly here's what we see..

Them: Morning Mommy the sun is shining..
what I see: Ugh, I didn't get enough sleep last night and now I have to start the day


Them: Mom look at that bird isn't it pretty
What I see: YUCK!! That bird just pooped on the car


Them: Hey look at that red PT cruiser
What I see: Hey that car just cut me off and we nearly collided


If for ONE day I could put my situations aside I could enjoy the sunshine, the birds and the colors that people have created.

Learning a LOT about myself.

Do you ever find yourself learning what you're really like? Those little things that others do that grind on your nerves? I am learning that it frustrates me when others can't come to grips with relying on GOD to provide them with the things they need. I am so tired of hearing of people being willing to step out of GOD's plan to "get what they want". UGH!!! I have seen it one too many times lately. I attempt to be content with what I have because complaining or trying to "help" GOD doesn't accomplish ANYTHING.

Sorry, rant OVER (for now).

Love you all thank you for reading. Kisses.

The things they say.

I love how children figure out new words. They start out with what they percieve in their heads.

Fun examples are listed here....
Scoop (soup)
Meema (Grandma)
NeeNee (Lilly)
Wiwwy (also Lilly)
Bumpoline (Trampoline)
Badetti (spaghetti)


As I remember more of the fun words that my children have come up with I'll post them. I want to keep these in my heart forever.

Purification.

Something that isn't necessarily easy to deal with or understand but is an important part of our faith. Tests and challenges that try to undo you but with perserverance and prayer can make you a stronger version of yourself. Tests of strength that come in the form of the health issues of your children, monitary struggles, strife with family members. They are ALL ways to test you and make you into a beautiful creature of the LORD's doing. It's amazing what GOD uses to aide us in this journey. Praise him for all he does for us.

Recovering

We have been so busy this last week. We had my nephew for a week and my niece for the weekend. Not that I don't love the children, BUT I am truly glad that it's back to my children and myself. I am hoping for some breathing room for a while. I was getting tired and not able to sleep well at the same time. I am glad that I can help my siblings, but it's our time now.

We are hoping to get out and do a few things this week just as a family to make up for the lack of time I got with the children last week.

At least the children haven't noticed me being a bit out of sorts because they were playing with their cousins.

Balancing me time with everything else.

This is a tough thing for a lot of people. I am sure many of us have had to cut things out of our day to make sure other things get accomplised. I am keeping up with my workouts. My dishes are staying done on a more regular basis and clothing is staying clean. The next issue is trying to find a place for all the clothing that we have been given for the next years worth of wear for the children. If anybody knows a smart form of storage I am ALL ears.

Summer is just round the bend. (a health PSA)

What a week this has been with temps at the beginnng of the week at 80 plus degrees then needing the heater for a day. Now it's hot and raining with storm warnings and high winds. It's the reminder that we're in for that hot sticky weather really soon.

I wanted to take this time to remind folks about a little known fact. Sports drinks are HORRIBLE for children and adult teeth due to carbination. They're just as bad as soda for eating away at the enamel. Regardless of sugar content they really aren't healthier. The best way to stay hydrated in this hot weather is plain ole' water. Yeah, it doesn't taste as good but it works. The other thing you can do is water down kool aid and don't add the recommended amounts of sugar.

Another thing to remember is that just because it's warm doesn't mean people won't get sick. Viruses are HUGE this time of year because people aren't protecting themselves as much. Keep the vitamin C and zinc around and do what you can to keep yourself healthy...Oh, and don't forget to take probiotics occasionally throughout the week. If you can keep things flowing through your digestive tract to keep yourself healthy (especially when swimming in public places).

Okay with that whole PSA out of the way something on a different front. My Sister-In-Law has access to raw milk and has offered to give some to us if it will digest properly within my sweet little boy's system. He's had some now and in a couple of days we'll see how things are. I am keeping my fingers crossed because I am not fond of soy and it's phytoestrogens. I know there are other alternatives but it's tough because they're more expensive.

Happy Birthday my sweet Lilly

She woke me at 6:30 AM then took a nap with me until 9:00. It was then that I reminded her that she was now 4. I am amazed at how the time has flown. I am also amazed at the things she accomplishes every day. Though she's a pretty mature 4 one thing I must remind myself is that ...."she's ONLY 4". I don't want to expect too much from her and allow room for her to blow me away. I hope we can all learn from my sweet Lilly.